Should I run for my enthusiasm... or Be Patient and Put Up beside Him?
Ok i have invested 6 yrs of my life near this man so i obviously love him a lot and we hold had bumpy rides throughout our relationship but have manage to handle it until 2 yrs ago. Last few yrs have be really tough and we have broken up and gotten back together masses times. but i am tired of this and need advice. any i leave for good or be merciful and supportive. please help me. here is the situation very briefly. He have to close down his business 2 yrs ago, was not doing well, owned it for 14 yrs. since next he has not been motivated to find a commission, he does not want to work for someone. he is embarassed. so he has exhausted all this stash, rrsp money and cashed out his life insurance. In the past, I own helped him financially. (we dont live together i live with my famiyl and they DO NOT similar to him) anyway I have helped financially surrounded by the past but he has squandered the money and i dont have any money to give him. I also dont quality sorry for him as he is employable but doesnt want to find work, is embarassed. as you can see his is VERY VERY stressed out and has been have anger problems. he takes it out on me and has put me down, insulted me, call me names and never apologizes ever. He tells me i enjoy to be supportive and patiend and that I am selfish for wanting to leave him at a time approaching this when he is in bad shape. but 2 yrs is long ample, and doesnt seem like he will recuperate anytime soon. I am so down on myself now and think conceivably I am selfish. He does not ask me for money directly but when we talk adjectives he talks about is is sob desperate story of no money. I think he is hoping i will give him money but i dont bestow and i think this is why he puts me down, insults me... im not sure. anyway wat to do?
#1 write sour the money you gave him, it's gone never to return.
#2 Send him to the money, never to return.
#3 If his stress went up 2 years ago at the starting point of the downturn the near bottom may crush him and you've seen where on earth he takes it out.
#4 Get out now!
#5 Get out presently!
#6 GET OUT NOW!
#7 Why are still reading this? REFER TO #6
Well i WAS going to take on his side before i read that he calls you name, etc. no matter how hard he's finding it there's no necessitate to take it out on YOU. I know for a fact that's it's strong to get a job, i enjoy my own problems and it's been 3 years since i've worked but he HAS the experience. If you want to stay with him i'd suggest you read aloud to him why not get a job first and afterwards try to start his own business again if that's what he wants while he has the brief and is getting money too. If he's not willing to get up past its sell-by date his a s s and is still taking it all out on you then i'd speak it's time to leave him, and f*ck him if he says your egocentric, you've waited 2 years already, your life doesn't revolve around him.
"> YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE PITY ON THIS SITUATION! he put this on himself their is no reason he should be embarrased to find a employment. get out of this relationship, cause theres no moving to the subsequent level with him. he'll other be broke and you'll always be supporting him, and thats not the way it should be. he is visibly not making you happy, leave him be gone for GOOD. please . collect yourself the long un happy road. and by the time you realize this it could be to late.
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#1 write sour the money you gave him, it's gone never to return.
#2 Send him to the money, never to return.
#3 If his stress went up 2 years ago at the starting point of the downturn the near bottom may crush him and you've seen where on earth he takes it out.
#4 Get out now!
#5 Get out presently!
#6 GET OUT NOW!
#7 Why are still reading this? REFER TO #6
Well i WAS going to take on his side before i read that he calls you name, etc. no matter how hard he's finding it there's no necessitate to take it out on YOU. I know for a fact that's it's strong to get a job, i enjoy my own problems and it's been 3 years since i've worked but he HAS the experience. If you want to stay with him i'd suggest you read aloud to him why not get a job first and afterwards try to start his own business again if that's what he wants while he has the brief and is getting money too. If he's not willing to get up past its sell-by date his a s s and is still taking it all out on you then i'd speak it's time to leave him, and f*ck him if he says your egocentric, you've waited 2 years already, your life doesn't revolve around him.
"> YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE PITY ON THIS SITUATION! he put this on himself their is no reason he should be embarrased to find a employment. get out of this relationship, cause theres no moving to the subsequent level with him. he'll other be broke and you'll always be supporting him, and thats not the way it should be. he is visibly not making you happy, leave him be gone for GOOD. please . collect yourself the long un happy road. and by the time you realize this it could be to late.
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